By Alive Kantor
BARRON’S.com
November 9, 2025
Many parents are seeing their adult children return home—46% have experienced this—with a growing number (38%) struggling with debt, a notable rise from the previous year. Financial advisors suggest setting clear expectations, creating firm financial boundaries, and maintaining open communication to support children’s independence. They also stress that parents should protect their own financial wellbeing by avoiding withdrawals from retirement funds and being honest about what they can and cannot afford.
“Before moving in, it’s good to have kids explain their goals and set out clear targets that parents can check in on,” said Lili Vasileff, president of Connecticut-based Wealth Protection Management.
“Whether it’s saving to get on the housing ladder or to rent a place of their own, or searching for a new job, children should have a plan when they move back home and know when they expect to reach financial independence and move out again.
Regular communication with the children is key to avoiding resentment or misunderstanding, making sure that the stay is for a limited period and that it doesn’t lead to financial dependence,” she said.
“You want to have early conversations and often to avoid friction. What becomes an issue often is not so much the money as it is the discipline…“
“Another approach is to consider financial support to a child as an advance against parents’ estate,” Vasileff said.
“Parents can figure out if the advance is to be recouped, if it’s to come out of the estate or if it’s to be forgiven. All these conversations are important.”
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